Saturday, June 21, 2014

Our Responsibilty to the Equine Industry

Today is a typical summer Saturday for me here in Macon,Ga; I headed to an early yoga class this morning, swung by Starbucks for some much needed caffeine and then came to the barn to teach and ride. Well I managed to squeeze in lessons before the skies opened up but didn't get to hop on Spence. However, one of my lessons today reopened a thought that I often have about the responsibilities of today's horse professionals. One of the students today is new to the barn and wants to participate in our summer camp, so we had a little trial run. With all of my new students that "know how to ride" I always ask tons of questions as we gather all of the brushes and tack to get a feel for what they actually know....parents are great at telling you that their kid is the best rider they have ever seen!
My biggest (ok I have a few) pet peeve is when I get a student that claims they have been doing walk/trot/canter but can't tell me how to properly groom a horse with the correct brushes in the correct order....ahhhhh.
So I thought about it and while horse professionals have a ton of responsibilities, at times they seem endless, I believe we have a huge responsibility to the next generation of horsemen and women; please note that I did not say the next generation of riders.
Our first responsibility is to encourage and demand that our students love, respect and care for their horses. If you aren't passionate about the horses then the horse world really isn't for you. If you are only interested in ribbons and the glitz of the show ring then you have stumbled into the wrong world. We need to show our students that horses take time and work. Even George Morris has stated "If riding were only blue ribbons and bright lights, I would have quit a long time ago."

Our second responsibility is show our students how to properly take care of their horse. Every ride should start with a thorough grooming BY THE STUDENT! Then the student should properly tack up their horse. They should learn how to put on boots and polos. If we hold their hands and do it for them we are only doing a disservice to the equine industry's future. I know that there are plenty of barns that students can go to where their pony will be tacked up upon their arrival and untacked and bathed when they leave, but what is that student really learning, they are learning that all they have to do is ride and someone else will take care of the dirty part. It can be tough when you are competing against those barns for clients but if every single barn and lesson program starts with good horsemanship then everyone wins.

Our third responsibility is to show our students that the horse always comes first. There will be times when they have a bad ride, they are starving or they want to go out on a date with that boy but the horse must always come first. When the horse no longer comes first then its time to move on. 
Our fourth responsibility is to educate our students about all aspects of horse care, not just what goes into their lesson. We need to teach them about colic, meds, sweat wraps, lameness issues, etc. If they ask you questions be there to answer them and allow them to learn how to help themselves and their horses.

And lastly we must show our students that every horse has worth. Every single horse out there will teach you something different, maybe you need to learn the proper posting rhythm or how to relax into the outside rein. Not every horse will go on to Grand Prix dressage or jump around Rolex but gracious knows neither will every rider! No matter how "advanced" a student thinks they are there is always something to learn and sometimes from the horse that you least expect. Remember don't judge a book by its color. I can't stand hearing students complain about a lazy horse or say "He won't listen to me he's too stubborn." In fact students usually only make that mistake around me once and very quickly learn the lesson that whining gets you no where. Let your students have a chance to learn something from each horse even if they are "advanced." 

The best and most effective way to encourage true horsemanship is to live it every single day. Your students watch you constantly and most of them will emulate what you do everyday in the barn. Set the example and then demand it from your students until it becomes second nature. It is our responsibility to inspire, teach and raise the next generation of horsemen and women to be great horse people.

Sunday, June 15, 2014

Makin' it in Macon

Wow summer is here in full swing and with it busy busy days but I love it! This past week and a half has been super crazy. Last week I helped out with Kid's College at Wesleyan and landed a spot in the Macon Telegraph newspaper with our school horse Sonny. They just love to pick the most flattering horse pictures! A weekend with friends was a perfect way to relax before the start of our equestrian camps at the barn. Plus Mike and I got to spend some time on the water with new friends and even tried our hand at water skiing. We both managed to get up and I managed to keep myself up for a turn around the lake!



The week was packed with camp activities and riding lessons as well as the arrival of our new stalls for the equestrian center! Tomorrow construction starts on the stalls so things should be looking pretty spiffy at the barn very soon. We also managed to get some more news coverage at the barn this week and landed on the 5:00 news for a piece on our summer camps.....gettin' famous down here in Macon y'all!
My advanced girls and awesome helpers this week.
Of course the hardest working help at the barn goes to the horses who put up with the campers all summer. Good ol' Henry loves being the camp demo horse and is the most patient thing ever about being painted on all summer. This week we did color coded body parts to help the campers remember the parts of the horse that we labeled on the board....however, after the campers left the classroom labels got a bit more interesting!
This weekend has already flown by but Mike and I were able to get a few more wedding details under wraps so everything is coming together!! I know that October will be here before I know it and I just hope I don't forget anything!! 
Hope y'all are enjoying lots of sunshine! Love y'all!








Friday, June 6, 2014

Why summer camp? or Whyyyyyy summer camp?!

It is officially summertime and in the horse world that means it is show season and camp season. Oh the joys of summer camp. My love of teaching summer camps has declined rapidly with each passing year but I firmly believe that every single teenager and young adult out there needs to work at or run a summer camp for at least one summer of their life. I also believe that every child should get the chance to experience summer camp, not just for the awesome memories but for the life long learning that it will inspire...and I don't mean you will want to be an engineer after a week of summer camp but Lord help you if you don't learn some manners during that week.
In today's world of video games, constant tv and internet access, smartphones and iPads it is no wonder that many kids don't grow up outside....craziness. Summer camp gives kids the chance to be a kid! You would be shocked at how many kids I see that beg me to wash their hands after getting horse slobber on them or will walk all the way around a little bit of mud on the ground. Kids are supposed to have fun and get a little dirty and summer camp gives them the chance to do just that...sorry but that videogame just doesn't cut it.
Summer camp will give most kids a crash course in manners. Summer camp counselors have the ever exhausting task of taking care of a fairly large group of kids and often times they are all yelling out questions or requests at the same time, but guess what? Counselors are pretty good at finding the one quiet, polite child in the group and making sure to call on them first. It is amazing to see how quickly children figure out that manners are rewarded.
Summer camp allows kids to explore their interests and make friends with similar interests. There is usually one kid on the first day of camp that is bouncing off the walls but once you figure out what that kid wants to learn about they will be the first one to volunteer to help out and most likely the one that will take the most away from what they learned at camp.
Summer camp creates awesome childhood memories! I would never ever go back and undo any of the summer camps that I attended as a child, I love all of my crazy, gross, exhausted memories from each and every camp. Not many childhood memories are going to top the summer of "pinky pees a lot" when Sarah and I attended Camp Potomac Woods. ( Perhaps that story will have to be told at my wedding...hmmmm)
God bless all of the summer camp counselors out there. It is a tiring job that will often times lead you to swearing off having any children in your lifetime...which leads me to the first reason you should work at summer camp.
Summer camp is the best birth control ever! Day 1 of teaching any summer camp will make you reconsider wanting children. Perhaps working summer camp should be a new requirement for all high school students.
Summer camp will make you realize how important it is to teach manners. Again day 1 of any summer camp and you will be insistent on the fact that should you ever decide to have children they will be raised to say "yes m'aam" and "no sir" so help you.
Teaching summer camp also shows you just how lucky you are to have had the chance at such great memories, not every kid gets to go play outside or make new friends at summer camp and you will quickly realize how special those memories are that your campers are making. You also get the chance to make a difference in each of your campers' days and lives, the difference might be as small as making them feel like part of the group or as big as opening up a new interest path for the rest of their life.
One of the best parts of being a summer camp counselor are the awesome people you meet along the way and the amazing places you get the chance to see. I was lucky enough to work at a camp in Alaska! I cherish every single one of those memories and all of the amazing people I met along the way.
 The coolest "wranglers" ever
 Heading out to swim the horses in the lake!
So as I head into my first full week of equestrian camp this coming week I will try to keep in mind all of the amazing things that happen during summer camp, I will also attempt to keep my sanity and patience....I may be getting too old for summer camp!
But send your kid to camp to make some lasting memories or send them off to work at camp for the awesome memories and the life lessons. Added bonus? You will get the best sleep of your life after a week of teaching summer camp!

Monday, June 2, 2014

138 Days to Go!!

I can't believe that there are only 138 days left to get everything ready for the wedding!!! Thankfully Mike and I went into high gear on Sunday for our wedding prep. We ordered our wedding bands! Dang I guess that makes this super real now. After the shock of that purchase some ice cream was definitely a necessity.
Then it was off to start our registry...I know we are running pretty late on that front but really we just want to see everyone at our wedding rather than get stuff. But we bit the bullet and headed over to Target to scan away, those little scanning guns are pretty addictive once you get started!
                  


  If you are just dying to see what we registered for you can head over to Target.com and search our names under wedding registry.
Everything else is finally coming together as well:
caterer is booked: so so excited about our amazing menu!!
photographer has been chosen: not an easy task for a worrywart
Mike found the DJ
wedding party is on board
bridesmaid dresses done
venues are all booked
my dress is being altered

Now we just need to get a move on with Mike's outfit, chair rentals, transportation and lodging....dear goodness does wedding planning ever end? 
Thank you so much to everyone who has helped us along the way and a giant thank you to my sister, September, who is also my maid of honor and has taken on the task of designing our wedding invites! Seriously I am so excited to see how they turn out!! 
Hope y'all had a great Monday and can't wait to see everyone down south in October!
Love y'all